“AS FOR ME AND MY HOUSE”

 

As for me and My House


The Church: His Model


Home-centered worship is biblical, while large, centralized, mainstream religious systems are repeatedly warned against. This is not an attack on sincere believers, but an examination of what God Himself says He desires.

I am presenting a lengthy bible study and a message for you to use in your Home Sabbath Gathering.


1. God Does Not Dwell in Man-Made Religious Buildings

🔹 Acts 7:48–49

Howbeit the most High dwelleth not in temples made with hands; as saith the prophet,
Heaven is my throne, and earth is my footstool: what house will ye build me?

🔹 Acts 17:24–25

“God that made the world… dwelleth not in temples made with hands;
Neither is worshipped with men’s hands, as though he needed any thing…”

Key Point:
God explicitly rejects the idea that He requires large structures, institutions, or religious centers for worship.


2. The Early Church Met in Homes, Not Large Congregations

🔹 Romans 16:5

“Likewise greet the church that is in their house.”

🔹 Colossians 4:15

“Salute the brethren… and the church which is in his house.”

🔹 Philemon 1:2

“And to our beloved Apphia… and to the church in thy house.”

🔹 Acts 2:46

“And they, continuing daily with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house…”

👉 Even when public spaces were used, true fellowship, teaching, and worship occurred in homes.


3. God Commands Parents to Teach Faith At Home

🔹 Deuteronomy 6:6–7

“And these words… thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children,
and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house…”

🔹 Joshua 24:15

“But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.”

Key Point:
God places spiritual authority and responsibility in the household, not in an external clergy system.


4. Christ Warned Against Religious Elites and Public Displays

🔹 Matthew 23:5–7

“But all their works they do for to be seen of men
And love the uppermost rooms at feasts, and the chief seats in the synagogues.”

🔹 Matthew 23:8–10

“But be not ye called Rabbi… for one is your Master, even Christ; and all ye are brethren.”

Contrast:
Large religious systems produce:

  • Hierarchy
  • Titles
  • Control
  • Performance religion

Christ taught equality, humility, and direct accountability to God.


5. True Worship Is Personal and Spiritual, Not Institutional

🔹 John 4:21–23

“The hour cometh, when ye shall neither in this mountain, nor yet at Jerusalem, worship the Father
God is Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.”

Meaning:
Worship is not location-dependent, not building-dependent, and not system-dependent.


6. End-Time Warning: God’s People Must Come Out of Religious Systems

🔹 Revelation 18:4

“Come out of her, my people, that ye be not partakers of her sins…”

🔹 2 Timothy 3:5

“Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.”

Biblical Pattern:
When religion becomes:

  • Centralized
  • Political
  • Wealth-focused
  • Controlling

👉 God calls His people out, not deeper in.


7. Where Two or Three Gather — Not Thousands

🔹 Matthew 18:20

“For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.”

Christ did not say:

  • where a denomination gathers
  • where a mega-church assembles
  • where a hierarchy rules

He said two or three.


8. Believers Are the Temple — Individually and Collectively

🔹 1 Corinthians 3:16

“Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?”

🔹 1 Peter 2:5

“Ye also, as lively stones, are built up a spiritual house…”

Conclusion:
God’s dwelling place is people, not buildings.


SUMMARY STATEMENT (Teaching / Sermon Conclusion)

Scripture shows that God never intended worship to be dominated by large, centralized, institutional churches.

From Abraham’s tents, to Israel’s homes, to Christ’s disciples, to the apostolic church—God worked through households.

As religion became political and hierarchical, God warned His people to come out and return to simple, obedient, home-based faith.

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“AS FOR ME AND MY HOUSE”

God’s Design for Worship in the Home


INTRODUCTION

Brethren, we live in a time when religion is loud, visible, organized, branded, and centralized. Massive buildings, professional clergy, hierarchical systems, and performance-driven worship dominate what the world calls “church.”

But the question we must ask is not what is popular, nor what is traditional
the question is: What does Scripture say?

If we lay aside assumptions and examine the Bible honestly, we discover something striking:

God never commanded His people to worship Him through large, centralized, institutional churches.
Instead, God consistently worked through families, households, and small gatherings — centered on obedience, truth, and direct relationship with Him.

Today we will examine God’s design for worship, and we will see that the home—not the institution—has always been the center of true faith.


I. GOD DOES NOT DWELL IN MAN-MADE RELIGIOUS BUILDINGS

Let us begin with a foundational truth.

Acts 7:48–49

“Howbeit the most High dwelleth not in temples made with hands; as saith the prophet,
Heaven is my throne, and earth is my footstool: what house will ye build me? saith the Lord.”

Stephen, full of the Holy Spirit, boldly declared that God does not live in religious structures.

Again, Paul reinforces this truth:

Acts 17:24–25

“God that made the world… dwelleth not in temples made with hands;
Neither is worshipped with men’s hands, as though he needed any thing…”

Brethren, this alone dismantles the idea that God requires buildings, institutions, or religious systems to be worshiped properly.

Buildings may be convenient —
but they are not commanded.


II. THE EARLY CHURCH WORSHIPED IN HOMES

When we look at the apostolic church — the church directly taught by Christ’s apostles — we do not find cathedrals, denominations, or centralized organizations.

What do we find?

Romans 16:5

“Likewise greet the church that is in their house.”

Colossians 4:15

“Salute the brethren… and the church which is in his house.”

Philemon 1:2

“And to… the church in thy house.”

The word church in Scripture does not mean a building.
It means a called-out people.

The early believers gathered:

  • In homes
  • Around meals
  • Around teaching
  • Around prayer

Faith was personal, relational, and obedient — not institutional.


III. GOD PLACED SPIRITUAL RESPONSIBILITY IN THE HOUSEHOLD

From the very beginning, God placed worship and instruction in the home.

Deuteronomy 6:6–7

“And these words… thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children,
and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house…”

God did not say:

  • send them to clergy
  • hand them to religious institutions

He said teach them in your house.

Joshua understood this:

Joshua 24:15

“But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.”

Brethren, this is covenant language.
God’s plan has always been family-centered faith, not outsourced spirituality.


IV. CHRIST WARNED AGAINST RELIGIOUS SYSTEMS AND HIERARCHY

Jesus Himself issued severe warnings about organized religion.

Matthew 23:5

“But all their works they do for to be seen of men…”

Matthew 23:8–10

“But be not ye called Rabbi
for one is your Master, even Christ; and all ye are brethren.”

Large systems inevitably produce:

  • Titles
  • Hierarchy
  • Control
  • Performance

Christ rejected all of it.

He did not establish an earthly religious institution —
He established disciples.


V. TRUE WORSHIP IS NOT LOCATION-BASED

Jesus made this unmistakably clear.

John 4:21–23

“The hour cometh, when ye shall neither in this mountain, nor yet at Jerusalem, worship the Father
God is Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.”

Worship is not about:

  • where you go
  • what building you enter
  • who is on the stage

Worship is about obedience, truth, and relationship.


VI. GOD WARNS HIS PEOPLE TO COME OUT OF CORRUPT RELIGION

As religion grows powerful, wealthy, and centralized, Scripture warns that it becomes corrupted.

Revelation 18:4

“Come out of her, my people, that ye be not partakers of her sins…”

2 Timothy 3:5

“Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.”

God does not reform corrupt religion —
He calls His people out of it.


VII. CHRIST PROMISED HIS PRESENCE TO SMALL GATHERINGS

Matthew 18:20

“For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.”

Christ did not say:

  • where thousands gather
  • where institutions rule
  • where hierarchies dominate

He said two or three.

That describes:

  • a family
  • a household
  • a small fellowship


VIII. BELIEVERS ARE THE TEMPLE OF GOD

1 Corinthians 3:16

“Know ye not that ye are the temple of God?”

1 Peter 2:5

“Ye also, as lively stones, are built up a spiritual house…”

God does not dwell in buildings.
He dwells in obedient people.


CONCLUSION

Brethren, Scripture is clear:

God’s pattern has always been:

  • Homes over institutions
  • Families over hierarchies
  • Obedience over performance
  • Truth over tradition

Large, centralized, mainstream religious systems are never commanded
and repeatedly warned against.

True worship does not require a building, a denomination, or a clergy system.

It requires:

  • A willing heart
  • Obedience to God’s Word
  • Faith lived out in the home

So today we reaffirm the ancient declaration:

“As for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.”

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Below is a clear, Scripture-anchored side-by-side comparison chart contrasting Biblical Home Worship with Institutional / Mainstream Religion.
This is designed so it can be taught, printed, or turned into a handout later.


BIBLICAL HOME WORSHIP vs. INSTITUTIONAL RELIGION

Biblical Home Worship

Institutional / Mainstream Religion

Centered in the home (Deut. 6:6–7)

Centered in buildings and campuses

“Church in the house” (Rom. 16:5; Philemon 1:2)

Church defined as a physical structure

God does NOT dwell in temples made with hands (Acts 7:48; Acts 17:24)

God implied to be specially present in buildings

Parents teach children directly (Deut. 6:6–7)

Spiritual instruction outsourced to clergy

No religious titles or hierarchy (Matt. 23:8–10)

Titles, ranks, clergy/laity distinction

All brethren are equal under Christ (Matt. 23:8)

Pyramid authority structure

Small gatherings (Matt. 18:20)

Large congregations, crowds, spectacles

Direct accountability to God (Rom. 14:12)

Accountability filtered through institutions

Worship in spirit and truth (John 4:21–23)

Worship tied to location, schedule, program

Simple fellowship, prayer, teaching (Acts 2:46)

Programs, performances, branding

Believers are the temple (1 Cor. 3:16)

Buildings treated as “the house of God”

Faith lived daily (Deut. 6:7)

Faith compartmentalized to services

Christ is the only Head (Eph. 1:22–23)

Organizational leadership often functions as head

Come out of corrupt religion (Rev. 18:4)

Loyalty encouraged to denomination/system

Truth tested by Scripture alone (Acts 17:11)

Tradition often elevated alongside Scripture


SUMMARY STATEMENT 

Biblical worship is relational, household-centered, and obedience-driven.

Institutional religion is centralized, hierarchical, and performance-oriented.

Scripture repeatedly shows God working through homes, families, and small obedient gatherings, while warning against large religious systems that replace direct relationship with structure and control.

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Early Christians met in homes, not in dedicated buildings called “churches.” This is well established from the New Testament and early history.

Biblical evidence

In the New Testament, the word church (ekklesia) means an assembly of people, not a building.

Several passages explicitly mention house meetings:

  • Romans 16:5 – “Greet also the church that meets at their house.”
  • 1 Corinthians 16:19 – “Aquila and Priscilla greet you warmly… together with the church that meets in their house.”
  • Colossians 4:15 – “Give my greetings to… the church in her house.”
  • Philemon 1:2 – “To… the church that meets in your home.”
  • Acts 2:46 – “They broke bread from house to house.”
  • Acts 12:12 – Believers were gathered in the home of Mary to pray.

No passage describes Christians owning or worshiping in a purpose-built “church building.”

Historical context

  • For the first 250–300 years, Christians were often persecuted, making public buildings impractical or dangerous.
  • Purpose-built church buildings did not become common until after Constantine (4th century), when Christianity was legalized.
  • Early gatherings were relational, participatory, and household-based, reflecting Jewish synagogue and family structures.

Key conclusion

The early church was a people-centered movement, not a building-centered institution.
Christians were the church; they did not “go to church.

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Here is a clear, side-by-side comparison of the house church (early Christian model) versus the modern institutional church model. This works well for teaching, discussion, or turning into a graphic.


House Church (Early Christian Model)

Where they met

  • Homes (Acts 2:46; Romans 16:5)
  • Sometimes courtyards or private spaces

Leadership

  • Shared leadership (elders/shepherds)
  • No single professional “pastor” over a congregation

Participation

  • Highly participatory
  • Believers prayed, taught, shared testimonies, broke bread together
    (1 Corinthians 14:26)

Focus

  • Relationships and discipleship
  • Community life and mutual care
  • Obedience and spiritual growth

Structure

  • Simple, flexible, organic
  • No stage, pews, or formal service order

Finances

  • Minimal overhead
  • Giving focused on helping the poor and supporting ministry

Identity of “church”

  • The people are the church (ekklesia)
  • Church is not a place, but a body


Modern Church (Institutional Model)

Where they meet

  • Dedicated church buildings
  • Sanctuaries, auditoriums, campuses

Leadership

  • Centralized leadership
  • Ordained clergy or professional pastors

Participation

  • Mostly passive
  • One person speaks; congregation listens

Focus

  • Weekly service attendance
  • Sermons, programs, and events

Structure

  • Formal and scheduled
  • Platform, pulpit, pews or seats

Finances

  • High overhead (buildings, staff, utilities)
  • Significant portion of giving supports operations

Identity of “church”

  • Church seen as a place people “go to”
  • Building often becomes central


Key Difference (Summary)

House church = family and function
Modern church = institution and form

This does not mean modern churches are evil, but it does mean they are not what God intended. .


Home Sabbath Gathering

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